Our neighbor host parties (dinner?) next door at least once a week, always on a weekday. Always ends close to midnight. Their guests all leave at once, are always very loud, laughing and chatting and hanging out in front of our front door before saying their final goodbyes and taking the elevator.
When you take the elevator in my building, if you make a right, there are only two apartments – mine and the neighbors. Mine comes first, and it’s about 15-20 feet from the main elevator, the neighbors’ are at the end of the hall.
Our walls are made of concrete – when my neighbors have their little events, we don’t hear a peep. When you gather in front of my front door and chat loudly, however, the noise travels through my apartment reaching every bedroom, since all our bedrooms face the living room (video tour here), added to that, the wooden floors are great at making sound travel.
When Lily hears the loud voices echoing through our apartment, she responds the same as any dog: she barks. Loudly.
A couple of weeks before I gave birth, I finally decided to attemt to put an end to the loud noise, the last thing I wanted was to have a baby awake all night because of people hanging out by my door. So on a Tuesday at 11:30pm, I went out and told the group of 10 people hanging out to please be quiet, we were trying to sleep.
The noise got better and for a little while, if there was anything, it would be passing noise, no one was lingering here.
Then it restarted. To make matters worse, guests started going to the hallway to have lengthy phone calls, right in front of our door.
So sometimes Karl goes out and asks them to please be quiet, we have a newborn baby sleeping. Sometimes I’m the one who asks.
Yesterday, the neighbor angrily accosted our helper to complain to her that we don’t own the common hallway, and we are bad diplomats for asking people to be quieter. Because don’t you know such guest was the president of XYZ company? And another president of ABC company?
Am I the only one that expects MORE from people in high positions? Consideration for others is not something you’re exempt from just because you have money, but if you do have money, I expect you to set the example for everyone else! And truth be told, let’s be honest, I don’t care if you’re the Queen of England! It’s the middle of the week, late at night, if you want to be loud, do so in your own apartment where the insulation keeps my baby and my pets from getting aggravated!
It’s going to be really really really hard leaving Manila. I’m going to leave an amazing group of friends behind, and board that plane with incredible memories. But this kind of crap? This sense of entitlement that some have just because they have money? I won’t miss it at all.
(Want a more drastic example? The men who murdered George Anikow were granted bail 3 months ago, despite having coldly murdered the former marine and spouse of a US diplomat – the murder itself happened because rich kids were told what to do and did not like it. It was all caught on video, but the video, where Anikow is seen running away, then tackled and stabbed by the four men, was not considered to be enough evidence. And then one wonders how some of the richer folks here get this sense of entitlement. Well, because they can.)